Revenge is SO Sweet
Yeah! I had one – am having one – and will continue to have one, and I won’t get caught. Let me tell you why!
First of all, it’s obvious since I am having a Revenge Affair, then I have been cheated on! This is not rocket science, so hopefully you figured that one out.
Yeah, yeah, I read stories, testimonials, and even got advised to NOT have a revenge affair. Here are the main arguments for not doing it.
• You would lower yourself to their level
• You would lose your character and morals
• You lose your dignity
• It won’t have the same effect on your Spouse as his Affair did on you
And on and on the warnings go.
Reality and Truth
Here is the ‘Realistic’ and ‘Truthful’ response to the naysayers.
Look, I still have my character and morals. Just the same as I always have. And someday ‘IF’ I am in a committed relationship again, then I can be as committed as any human on the planet. When I am in an honest relationship and not ever lied to, then I can, and will, be as honest as the Pope. So you see, I have not lost my character or my morals, I am still the exact same person I always was.
Oh! I know, some of you don’t think so – you think I have damaged my character because now I can’t have ‘Victim’ tattooed on my forehead and wear it around with pride! Well, guess what? I don’t want ‘Victim’ tattooed on my forehead since that would drastically change my outward appearance and likely not match any outfit presently in my closet.
You know what else? I don’t want “Doormat” tattooed on my forehead either!
An Eye for an Eye
Whatever happened to “What’s good for the goose is good for the gander?” Or “An Eye for an Eye.” The later of those phrases is even in the holy scriptures. Yet some are tricked into believing that does not apply to being cheated on. Then, what do those wise sayings apply to? Everything ‘But’ being cheated on?
So, as for character, morals, dignity, and any other lovely attachment you might be fashioning, guess what? I had all those before I was cheated on. Did my unblemished morals, honesty, or character prevent my significant other from experiencing intimacy outside our relationship? No! Were those wonderful attributes even considered? No!
So you say a Revenge Affair won’t have the same effect?
On who? This argument is used to discourage trying to inflict pain on a Spouse by running out and having an affair to try to get even. That’s stupid, that’s nuts! That is not even the point. Anyone who has a revenge affair for that reason is not smart enough to read this and understand.
No, it will not have the same effect on my Spouse as his affair did to me. Because he won’t ever find out!
This Affair is for ME!
Point is: I don’t want to cause him pain. I don’t want to inflict anything on him. This Affair is for me, not for him! I want to experience the same feelings he did with someone new. I want to feel admired and desired with a new partner intimately. I want to experience the endorphins from a new emotional attachment. So will my affair have the same effect? Yes it will, for Me!
And just like him, I don’t want to divorce, separate, lower my standard of living, or lose half of what I have.
And no, I won’t get caught.
There are simple rules that must be followed to prevent being caught in an Affair. These are outlined in detail at infidelityaffair.com. I will enjoy my new intimacy, I will always have my character and morals, I will not lose my dignity, and I WILL NOT be a doormat or a victim.